When I asked Rodd to have a financial review last week, he asked laughing if I wanted him to prepare a full annual report like this guy. “OMG YES I LOVE IT š” I replied. We decided to compromise and he made me the cool Sankey diagram I used in the previous post. If you’d like to make one for yourself, he used the tool SankeyMATIC.
Category: Retirement
Retirement – 6 months on…
Just over 6 months ago I handed in my badge and embarked on a new adventure with the Snook: early retirement. I really wasn’t sure how it was going to go. Would I get bored without a 9-5 job? Would Rodd and I get sick of spending all our time together? Was our planned budget unrealistic, and we’d have to become penny-pinching misers?
I’m happy to report that the answer to all those questions was a resounding NO.
Finances
Our gross income has dropped considerably without my salary, and it’s down about 75% on what we earned in the first half of the year. That was pretty scary for me at first, and we had regular sessions to review our budget and so Rodd could show me that we were still on track. We earned the bulk of our income through dividends on our stock portfolio, as well as returns from a few other investments we have. (Wages consists solely of Rodd’s tour guide income, as I promised myself not to even consider getting a job for six months.) Here’s a Sankey diagram that Rodd created showing our sources of income and what we spent it on.
The spending breakdown* is accurate, thanks to our tracking in You Need a Budget, but there are a few things that aren’t in there yet that are billed annually in the first half of the year (like Home & Contents insurance, for example). It also doesn’t include anything related to our renovation, as most of those costs came in the first half of the year. There are also still some tax issues we are sorting out from our time in Munich with tax agencies in the US, Australia, and Germany (š), but hopefully that should all be resolved in 2025 and our tax situation will get way simpler. I’d also like to double the charitable donations in 2025. But even with those adjustments, we’re still pretty confident that we’re living well within our planned budget.
Overall, if you take these 6 months of outgoings (taxes + spending), multiply it by 2 (so 12 months rather than 6), and divide it by our current portfolio (savings + investments), we had an effective drawdown rate of 1.8%. That’s well within the 4% rule target, which is great as we’re ideally aiming for it to last more than 30 years.
And numbers are fine, but how does itĀ feel? I said to Rodd yesterday: I don’t feel like I’ve been depriving myself of anything. We moved back into the house; we had a European holiday (granted, the long flights were paid with FF miles!); we went to some great shows and concerts; and we were able to absorb unexpected costs like a new fridge. If anything, our latest budget review showed us that there’s room for us to spend moreĀ without feeling too guilty. We’ve been able to give some generous gifts to support others and I’m looking forward to doing more of that.
* This is the point when I acknowledge again the huge amount of privilege involved here. Between us we had 40+ years in the tech industry, 16 of those at FAANG companies. Our mortgage is fully offset, and we’ve paid off our college loans. Neither of us is dealing with chronic illnesses or disabilities. We don’t have kids. We live in a city where we don’t need to own a car, and in a country with a functioning public healthcare system. We aren’t in immediate danger of our house burning down. š¢ Ā We know how lucky we are, and we aren’t going to take any of it for granted.
Personal projects
When I quit my job, there were several people who expressed confusion over what I’d do with my time. Beyond moving and setting up house, I had a lot keeping me busy. Some highlights:
- I designed, built, and organised my dream craft room and office.
- I finished off a number of knitting and mending projects, and I did a heap of sewing. I made myself two new shirts, as well as placemats and two sets of cushions for the house.
- I cut up my AWS dresses and shirts and turned them into 14 bucket hats, which I raffled off to support dementia-related charities. All in all, I raised over $2400 for dementia support and research.
- I gave talks on financial independence as well as AI and creativity, and I attended a couple tech conferences as well.
- I revamped this blog and have been making regular updates to both it and RoaldDahlFans.
- I got a library card and I’ve actually managed to read a few books! We’ve also attended several library talks and events. I’ve also gotten back into video gaming and even managed to finish a few games.
- I’ve been to more concerts, plays, movies, and festivals in the last 6 months than I have in the previous two years combined.
- I’ve caught up with a lot of old colleagues and friends, for coffee chats, boozy lunches, and dinners that I wouldn’t have had the energy to do while I was working full-time.
Missed opportunities: I’d hoped to have focused more on my health, namely building strength and riding my bike. Unfortunately I badly injured my hip during the move back at the end of August, and it’s taken me several months of rest as well as physio sessions to start to recover. It also meant I had to pull out of some scheduled volunteering.
Looking forward
Now that I’m finally on the mend and our renovation project is nearing completion, my big personal focus areas in 2025 will be on physical health andĀ giving back. I’d like to start lifting weights and putting some kilometres on my bike, and maybe lose some weight if I can. (I keep trying to justify to myself putting Ozempic in the budget, but I’m not quite there yet. š) In addition to increasing our charitable donations, I’d also like to do more volunteering in the community. I’ve already started strong with volunteering for the Sydney Festival, and I’m looking to do more. I’m also open to mentoring chats (whether in-person in Sydney or via videoconference) if folks are interested and want to reach out.
Beyond that, Rodd has bought us a couple Discovery Passes for rail travel and we are planning to visit more of regional Australia. First up will be trips to Mittagong and Canberra!
I’ve had a few folks reach out with job opportunities and I’ve had some ideas for part-time jobs for myself, but there’s no pressure and I haven’t made any serious steps in that direction yet. This has been the most surprising thing for me: IĀ really don’t miss work. I miss the people, of course, but not the stress or the travel or the busy-ness. I like being in charge of my day, and organising my schedule around our lives. I like spending time with Rodd, and with my friends and family. I’m not bored, and I’m not looking for a job to give my life meaning at this point.
Things are good. š©·
Retirement
People on social media keep implying that Iām doing retirement incorrectly. I suspect they expected me to become a complete homebody and retire from public life? š¤·āāļø But really, it means I donāt have a full-time job and I spend my time how I like. Some days Iām helping out at a tech conference; other days Iām in my PJs playing videogames or in my craft room making something. After six years of doing pretty much nothing but AWS, itās nice to pick and choose. I contain multitudes, people. š
Eff-Off Money: Financial independence for tech workers
This is a write-up of a talk I gave at the October 24, 2024 meetup of Sydney Technology Leaders. While it wasn’t recorded so this isn’t an exact transcription, I’ve written out my notes and the information I gave as best I can remember. It also builds on and expands a previous blog post I wrote, so you may want to check that out too.
For those that don’t know me, I’m a dual American-Australian citizen. I’m 47 years old, and I’m a DINKādouble income, no kids. I’ve worked in the Sydney technology industry in a variety of roles for more than twenty years, but I haven’t worked a day in the last 3 months. It’s been glorious.
Before I get to the HOW, I want to first acknowledge that this is a pretty awkward thing to talk about. I’m very, very lucky. Everyone in the room tonightāunless you were digging ditches todayāis very lucky. We live in a country with national healthcare, and you don’t have to worry about your kids being shot at school. We earn good wages. We are at a social gathering, eating free food and drinking free booze. The older folks in this room came of age with the Internet, and we were lucky enough to get in on the bottom floor of all of that.
My point here is I don’t want you to think that I think that if you just follow what I did, you’ll have the same outcome. Your circumstances are your own. But I also don’t want you to think that it’s all just dumb luck, and that it’s not worth putting in the effort. My husband and I both come from families of labourers. I was never taught anything about personal finance growing up. I had a part time job from the moment I turned 14 years old. I was the first on both sides of my immediate family to go to university, which I technically only finished paying off in 2020.
My point is that hopefully everybody, no matter their circumstances, can take something practical and useful away from this today.
You may have heard about the FIRE movement. That stands for Financial Independence, Retire Early. Let’s park the early retirement for now, as that’s not necessarily a goal for everybody. I want to spend a bit of time focusing on just the FI partāfinancial independence. I’ve pasted in the Wikipedia definition here, but what it really comes down to is not having to work for money. Imagine if you didn’t need the pay check from your current job. What would that get you?
It would give you agility. (I’ve tried really hard throughout this talk to put things in terms technical folks will understand!) Agility means you can change your priorities up at any time. Maybe you want to start your own business, change industries, or relocate to another country. If you aren’t reliant on that pay check, you can do that. You can even quit your jobātell your boss to eff-off, effectivelyāat any time, and know that you’ll be okay.
So where does this FI concept come from?
The guy generally acknowledged as the godfather of this movement is JL Collins. His philosophy is pretty simple: “Spend less than you earnāinvest the surplusāavoid debt. Do simply this and you’ll wind up rich.” He gave a talk about it at Google that’s up on YouTube, which was how Rodd found out about him. Meanwhile I started reading blogs like Get Rich Slowly and Mr. Money Mustache more than a decade ago.
So in practical termsāhow do you make FI happen?
First there’s one more caveat: this talk is based on the assumption that we live in a capitalist society. Earning, spending, and investing money involves political and ethical considerations. Every one of us has their own moral Rubicon that they won’t cross, and I completely respect that. (You are not going to hear one goddamn word from me about crypto in this talk, for instance.) But if you see all property as theft and want to dismantle the system, good for you. I will 100% sign your petition and support your right to protest. But me, I like living in a nice house and buying a new computer every couple of years and going on the occasional vacation. I accept that if and when the revolution comes, I’m going to be fairly far towards the front of the queue for the firing squad. For now, I can live with my choices.
So the four steps I’ve outlined here are Tracking, Budgeting, Investing, and then possibly Retirement.
Let’s start with Tracking. How much do you spend on groceries every year? How about electricity? Dining out at restaurants? Buying clothes? You probably have a rough idea – but do you have DATA?
For each of the steps, I’ve compared them to an analogous AWS Well-Architected pillar. For Tracking, I’ve gone with Operational Excellence because it’s all about monitoring your running systems and processes, and defining standards for your daily operations.
Way back in 2007 Rodd and I started to think about buying a house, and we used a mortgage broker to help us work out what we could afford. We didn’t have a lot of financial discipline, but we got very lucky and found a place that wasn’t beyond our means. We knew we needed to get a better handle on where our money was actually going. And like good nerds, we looked to technology for a solution.
Really what we wanted was to build a data lake by logging our spending. We also wanted to create dashboards and reports to get visibility on where our money was going, and to help make things easier at tax time. We tried out a few different apps along the way, as well as shared Google spreadsheets to bring things together. Nowadays many banks allow you to categorise transactions, but you might have multiple accounts. So for us, having a standalone app was important, and we needed one that works for both iOS and Android. We considered automation for pulling in bank transactions but ultimately decided that the exercise and discipline of manually entering transactions would be good for us, and it only takes 15-20min a week.
Ultimately the solution we went with is You Need a Budget and we’ve been using it for more than a decade. They have a blog and YouTube channel where they shared a lot of content around financial education and getting out of debt. It does cost money though, but we’ve found it to be well worth it. I’ve included a referral link if you want to get a free trial.
This is how I know exactly how much money we’ve spent on groceries each month. It’s really easy to create reports or search through the logs to see what you’re spending. (Note: I showed the real graphs during the talk, but for the blog I’ve blurred out the actual numbers for privacy.)
Once you get some data and visibility on where your money is actually going, it’s time to actually get insights from it. What targets should you be aiming for? What do you need to increase or reduce? That’s where Budgeting comes in.
The Budgeting step is analogous to Performance Efficiency and Cost Optimisation. It’s all about making sure that everything is right-sized and cost effective.
First and foremost, think about how you can scale up your income as much as possible. Look, maybe you don’t ever want to work for a FAANG company. That’s understandable. But if there’s a way you could double your income NOWāand put that extra money to workāthat’s going to make a massive step towards FI. Maybe you could move to a new role, or pick up some on-call shifts.
Next, you want to scale down your expenses. This doesn’t necessarily mean living on lentils, but think about where you could cut things without making a big difference to your life. For us, that means flying Economy class. We cook a lot and make coffee at home. Our pets were rescues. Our furniture has always been IKEA or Facebook Marketplace. We generally subscribe to 2-3 streaming services at a time rather than all of them, and we rotate them around.
I’d also like to suggest trading CAPEX for OPEX wherever you can. This means not buying a thing when you only need it every now and then, but instead just paying for use. We don’t own a car. Instead we’re members of GoGet and we simply rent one whenever we need it. In addition to saving money, it also means we can rent out our carspace and earn some extra cash. (Granted, this is heavily dependent on where you live and whether public transport/car share are available.)
When we started out, we had no idea what our target level of savings should be. Do you know that according to the Australian Bureau of Statistics, personal savings in Australia averaged 9.29% from 1959 until 2024, reaching an all time high of 24.10% in the second quarter of 2020 (because it was Covid lockdown and nobody was going anywhere or spending money). Right now, it’s sitting at 0.6%. Ouch.
If you’re just starting out, one useful model you can use is the Balanced Money Formula. I learned about this from the Get Rich Slowly blog, but it comes from a book written by Senator Elizabeth Warren and Amelia Warren Tyagi. It’s a simpler alternative to having a really detailed budget. You may also see it referenced as the “50/30/20 rule.” The idea is that no more than 50% of your income (ideally, more like 35%) should go to Needs – these are things you have to have, like housing, food, transportation, medicine, insurance, etc. And you want to save at least 20% of your income, leaving 30% for Wants.
We used YNAB to roll our spending up to these categories and found out that in 2010, we were at 52% Needs, 13% Wants, and 34% Savings. Not bad!
This is a very simple model, but it can be useful to get you going. As a first goal, having at least 3 months of expenses in the bank as an emergency fund is recommended. But this model is about achieving “balance”; it won’t necessarily get you to Financial Independence.
For that, you’re going to need to be more aggressive.
This screenshot is from the Mr. Money Mustache blog and his famous post “The Shockingly Simple Math Behind Early Retirement.” In it he says that your time to reach retirement depends on only one factor: your savings rate, as a percentage of your take-home pay. To illustrate this:
- At 100% spending, you can never retire unless someone else is doing the saving for you (like superannuation or wealthy parents).
- At 0% spending (like someone else is paying all your expenses), you can retire right now.
In between, there’s a graph… but the interesting thing is that it’s not linear. Because once you start investing your money, it starts earning money itself. It snowballs. So the graph ends up curved. This is a long post and I highly recommend you read it, and it includes a chart that I’ve pasted in here. If you want to be really aggressive about FI, Mr. Money Mustache reckons that if you can save 50% of your income, you can achieve FI in 16 years. And in truth, that’s pretty much about how long it took for us.
But you don’t just stick it in the bank in a savings account! You have to put it to work. And that brings us to Investing.
BUT FIRST – A MASSIVE DISCLAIMER.
I am not a financial advisor. Rodd is not a financial advisor. I actually looked it up, and to be a financial advisor in NSW where we live, you have to do a degree and pass a certification. We’ve done neither of those. This is not investment advice. I am simply telling you what we learned from our research, and what we’ve done in our own financial independence journey.
I have likened Investing to the Reliability pillar, because it’s all about ensuring reliability and availability of your future financial resources.
For us, we started by focusing on paying off our mortgage as quickly as possible. We have a Mortgage Offset account and have reached the point where it equals the outstanding balance, and it simply deducts every month. This is a contentious topic in FI circles, because some folks think you’re better off investing that money in something that brings a higher return. We’re fairly risk averse though, and we preferred knowing that we were never at risk of missing a mortgage payment due to a market downturn.
Next, we were fortunate to work for employers that regularly awarded us shares through Employee Share Schemes. I knew a lot of folks at AWS who proudly told me that they had never sold a share. We did the opposite of that. Every time we vested shares, we sold them. The reasoning is simple: if both your current income and your retirement savings are tied up in the same company, what happens if there’s a downturn? You’re at risk of being laid off, as well as your retirement fund value going down. You’ve literally got a single point of failure. Instead we immediately sold the shares and invested them in low-fee index funds, which basically track the performance of the market as a whole. (Historically the stock market has seen 8-10% growth over the past century, on average.)
Because I’m a dual citizen and we have future goals of supporting family in the US, we have also spread our investments across multiple markets. There are also restrictions on what financial instruments Americans can own, so some things are in my name and some are in Rodd’s. We also have interest earning accounts at a few different local banks, ensuring that we’ve got access to cash if one of them has an outage.
And lastly, we are currently looking to engage a fixed-fee financial advisor to look over our plan and see if there’s anywhere we could optimise. (Those cross-border tax gotchas are a real pain for expats.) Many advisors will charge based on a percentage of your assets, and you don’t want that. Look for someone with a set fee instead.
Here’s some historical data showing our breakdown across Needs, Wants, and Savings over the period from 2010-2022 when Rodd retired. What’s interesting to me is that our Wants are fairly consistent, around 20% of our income. There were a few years when it was more, mostly due to renovating our kitchen and garden. The bumper years were 2016-2019, when we saved more than 50% of our income every year (and my income massively increased due to going to AWS). 2020 ended up being one of our lowest savings years, simply because of paying off my final student loans and our relocation to Germany.
You’ll notice this is a Google spreadsheet graph. I created a couple graphs for myself that I found really motivating over the years.
One of them showed the balance in the Mortgage Offset account versus the amount outstanding. In Google Sheets you can extrapolate a trend line, and I loved seeing the intersection in the future and having a date to work towards.
Another was for Retirement. When we started thinking this was maybe a goal, we picked a number that we thought would be a useful target and then I tracked our progress towards it. The goal number turned out to be a little lower than what we needed in reality, but it was a nice round number to aim for. Note: This isn’t your total Net Worth, but rather the value of your income-producing assets. (You don’t get income from your house; you live in it.) So while this graph wasn’t totally accurate, it still showed progress and helped indicate to us when we were getting close to FIRE.
And so at last we come to Retirement, possibly Early depending on how aggressively you’ve been saving.
The FIRE movement actually includes many different flavours of FIRE. There’s LeanFIRE, for those who want to cut their expenses to the bone right now in exchange for getting to FI as quickly as possible. These are the folks happily living on lentils now, who are happy to live on lentils forever. Then there’s FatFIRE (and ChubbyFIRE), where the goal is to save enough to be able to live luxuriously in retirement. These are the folks who want to fly Business class always. CoastFIRE is where you’ve saved enough in your retirement accounts that they are snowballing, and they will eventually grow to the target you need for retirement. So you can stop saving now, and switch to a lower-stress, lower-income job that just covers your current expenses. And lastly, there’s BaristaFIRE, where you have saved enough to retire but still work at Starbucks for their health insurance. (This one happens mostly in the US; you don’t need to do that in Australia.)
There are various calculators and spreadsheets that will help you work out what your goal should be for any of these.
Whichever FIRE model you go for, it’s all about ensuring Security of your assets and future lifestyle. The general advice you’ll see on the financial blogs is that you should aim for 25x (25 times) your annual expenses. This assumes a 3-4% drawdown rate over 30 years. This 4% Rule basically ensures that you can draw down a steady income even in the face of inflation and economic downturns. Of course, it’s safest if you can vary your spending. If you go LeanFIRE and you’re retiring on very little income, you don’t have a lot of wiggle room. Whereas in our case, we know that if the market drops, we can cut back on eating out or overseas vacations.
This is also where having a financial advisor can help, because you might have future goals beyond just covering your monthly expenses. Rodd and I have parents who will need support in the future, as well as nieces and nephews we’d like to help out with their education.
In 2022 we realised that we were at a point where retirement was an actual option. Rodd had a good long think about it, and in August 2022 he left Google after his 10 year anniversary there. This photo was taken on his last day. He hasn’t had a full-time job since.
I continued on for 2 more years, with the amazing perk of having my very own househusband. This helped pad out the fund even more, and also covered the cost of the home renovation that we’re doing.
Finally in April this year, I decided that I was burnt out and would join him. I finished up at the end of June and have been retired for nearly 4 months now.
Lastly, here are a few considerations and gotchas you should take into account if you’re thinking about retirement. A big one is that you don’t get work perks anymore! For me, that meant no more company healthcare or mobile phone plans. I had to sign up for my own. It means not being surrounded by free snacks and food at work, if you’re lucky enough to work in an office like that. It means no more branded swag. (Do you know how many AWS t-shirts and jackets I have?!) And the big oneāno more racking up frequent flier miles on your employer’s dime. I have my KrisFlyer Gold status for another year, but then I know it’ll probably drop down and I’ll be sad.
There’s also the risk of being bored, and lacking motivation or purpose. Some people love work, and they need that to fuel life. Rodd has been perfectly content in retirement, and he’s found plenty to occupy himself: getting a part-time job as a beer tour guide, volunteering, being on the apartment Strata committee, and organising our renovation. I used to think I would struggle more, being an extrovert, but I feel like the pandemic really changed my values quite a bit. I don’t necessarily feel like I need to be up on stage anymore to feel fulfilled. I have a long list of projects to do at home, and so far I’m enjoying doing them.
You may also experience pushback from family and friends when you tell them you’re retiring. Most folks have been lovely, wishing us well or indicating that they wished they could retire too. But we’ve also run into a couple folks who just could not get their head around itāsome come from a culture where you work until you’re 70 to take care of your parents and family. Others don’t understand not wanting to make as much money as possible, forever. They thought we were making a huge mistake. Not much you can do there.
And lastly, retirement shows you how much of the world is organised around work. We flew in from overseas in September and I had to fill out Australia’s Incoming Passenger Card. And right away I hit that field that says Occupation. What do I write there now?! (I went with Consultant. That always feels safe.) Whenever you meet new people, they always ask you what you do for a living. If you register for any tech events, it’ll ask you your company and job title. And of course, it can get awkward when your friends and family have work problems or get laid off. You want to support them but worry that you’ll be annoying or they think you won’t be able to relate.
Just stuff to think about.
Time to sum it all up. I talked about Financial Independence, and how it can give you agility no matter what your ultimate goals are. To get there, you need to first understand your spending. That means you need to start Tracking today, if you aren’t already. Once you’re Tracking you can start Budgeting, and actually being proactive with your hard-earned dollars. We talked about the Balanced Money Formula, and how ultimately FI comes down to saving as much of your income as you can. Once you’ve accumulated some savings, you need to put it to work through Investing in income-producing assets. And ultimately, if you want you can work towards early Retirement, where you can quit your job and live off your retirement savings, assuming you’ve hit your FIRE goals.
Thanks!
FIRE, and the next chapter…
After six years at Amazon, it’s finally time to move on and try out early retirement.
As a few folks have guessed, we’ve been proponents of the FIRE movement for a long time now. I am not in a position to give anyone else financial advice and your circumstances are certainly unique to you, but here are some of the resources we used along the way. (Note: where possible I’ve given you a referral link as we both get a benefit.)
- Get Rich Slowly – JD Roth has written a lot of excellent posts and articles about personal finance. One that I found really helpful was on the Balanced Money Formula, and we’ve been using the Needs/Wants/Savings categories for our spending since 2013. We’ve tweaked it a bit over the years, but it’s a good high-level framework to get you going.
- Mr. Money Mustache – A more fun (and sweary!) look at financial independence, this blog has given us a lot of ideas and inspiration over the years.
- J L Collins – Pretty much the godfather of the FIRE movement. He gave a talk at Google one year that Rodd found really helpful, and his site has a lot of useful resources.
- Reddit – Rodd’s recommendations in particular are r/Bogleheads, r/ChubbyFIRE, r/EuropeFIRE, r/ExpatFIRE, r/fiaustralia, and r/financialindependence. He notes: “r/ChubbyFIRE is for people targeting a particular range of retirement spending. There’s FatFIRE for the >$10M crowd (“Is NetJets worth it, or should I just fly first class?”). Also LeanFIRE for people happy to eat rice and beans for life if it means not working.”
- You Need a Budget (YNAB) – I’ve written about this budgeting app in the past, and we’ve been using it for 10 years now. It’s mostly geared towards people getting out of debt (using the envelope system), but it also has really good tracking and reporting tools. It has both Android and iOS apps, and you can have separate budgets in other currencies (which we made use of in Germany). In some countries it can pull in your bank transactions automatically, but Aussie banks aren’t supported so we manually put them in every week.
- Sharesight – We use this online portfolio manager to track all our different investments. Rodd says it’s particularly useful when it comes time to prep our tax returns.
- Google Drive – Before we landed on YNAB, we had a shared spreadsheet that broke down our income, spending (Needs and Wants), and savings every month. This means we have our spending data all the way back to 2010. We also have a spreadsheet that covers all of our different accounts and investments. (Rodd doesn’t like how Sharesight handles cash/savings accounts, so he prefers to consolidate them here.) We also have a shared folder where we put all our payslips and tax-related docs every year.
A lot of retirement planning is based on your income. We realised quickly that that’s silly; we needed to set our goals on what we wanted to spend. By tracking our spending over time, we had a pretty good idea of what we needed each month. Then we could work out a target that made sense, and put all our efforts into hitting that. Our Google spreadsheet had a graph that tracked our net worth vs. that goal, and it gave me such satisfaction to see the little line marching up every month. Both of us were lucky enough to receive stock from our employers, which we sold as soon as it vested and put into low-fee mutual funds and other long-term investments (spread across US, EU, and AU to reduce risk).
In truth that red line is a little bit of a lie, because we hadn’t accounted for lifestyle inflation and a few other things. It was a good motivational symbol though. It became clear a couple years ago that we had the option to stop work if we wanted to, and in 2022 Rodd opted for it. He’s been out for nearly two years and is really happy. He managed our move back to Australia, got a part-time job leading craft beer tours, organised the renovation, and has managed the household and our lives to free me up to focus just on work. I’m a bit more anxious, so I kept going to pad things out a bit more and cover the cost of our renovation. By the beginning of this year, I was starting to feel really tired and ready to stop. I love my team and my job, but the pandemic really prompted me to think about what’s important. My values have changed. I want to slow down; to focus on my creative pursuits; and to get healthy. So a few months back I told my manager that I was done, and the time to say goodbye finally arrived.
I am not naive enough to think this is possible for everyone. It involved a huge amount of luck and privilege. While we both needed loans for college, we graduated at a time before tuition costs skyrocketed. We are extremely fortunate to have landed in our particular careers at this particular time in history. Between us we had 40+ years in the tech industry, nearly half of it at some of the biggest companies in the world. We were also incredibly lucky to buy a house for a decent price in a neighbourhood where we don’t need to have a car. We don’t have kids, and we live in a country with strong national healthcare. We haven’t had to deal with relationship breakdown or serious illness. And despite me saying “we” throughout this post, most of the long-term investment efforts have been managed by Rodd. I’m incredibly lucky to have a partner that is interested and capable of navigating this stuff. Obviously we can’t know what will happen in the future, and I’m not ruling out getting a job again at some point. But right now I’m excited to have our time be our own, and to enjoy life for a while. I’m looking forwad to catching up with friends, and to moving back into our house once it’s finished. We’re also exploring options for volunteering, to start to pay it forwards for others.
And of course… expect a lot more blogging! I can’t wait to get back to it. ā¤ļø